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        Why My 93-year-old Gran is Learning to Fly

                                                                              By James Wooldridge
              n a bright but slightly cloudy day, 93-year-old Mollie is standing
              on an airfield near London, preparing to start her next flying
        Olesson. "Ordinary flying is very boring, I hate it - but this, you
        see so much," she says, "England is so beautiful. I never realized that
        there were probably 50 shades of green."
        It is something she has done on major birthdays since she was 70 and   Leaving the Wrens, Mollie went on to become an au pair, a nurse and a
                                                               chef. But she always had a hankering to take to the skies. Back on the
        just one facet of her active life (she's a keen horse-rider too). Joining   airfield, Matilda watches her grandmother's plane take off. "It's piqued
        Mollie  at  the  airfield  for  the  time  is  her  12-year-old  granddaughter   my interest and I would like to give it a go," says Matilda, explaining
        Matilda. "I've heard all about her flying but I've never been here and   that Mollie's encouragement has helped her make her the person she is
        witnessed it," says Matilda, "I hope she is a better navigator in the plane   now.
        than when she is driving us here."                     Like her grandmother, Matilda has an appetite for adventure, and
        Mollie's passion for flying began in World War Two. She was inspired   they share a love of horse riding. "It's kind of dangerous, so there's an
        by the women pilots she saw delivering planes from the factories to the   element of that you have to trust the horse," says Matilda. "You have
        front line. "When I joined the Wrens [Women's Royal Naval Service]   to work as a team, it's not just an individual thing... you have to really
        I  didn't  realise  that  women  could  fly,"  she  says.  "I  was  watching   work together to help each other and have a good relationship."
        Pathe Gazette and they said this woman was bringing in a Wellington
        [bomber] and I thought, 'Oh, why did I join the Wrens? I could have   A keen rider, Mollie says she started riding when she was about six or
        done that,' and ever since I thought I must go in an aeroplane and learn   seven years old, but never had formal lessons. "It was just the natural
        to fly."                                               thing to do," says Mollie. Mollie introduced Matilda to horses when she
        Aged  just  16  when  she  joined,  Mollie  admits  she  forged  her  birth   was 18 months old. "She took it like a horse to water," says Mollie. She
                                                               tells Matilda: "You had a smile on your face and you were enjoying it."
        certificate, knowing the Navy would not take her if she was under 17.
        "We all wanted to join up. We weren't going to let anybody come and   Earlier  in the week,  before  the flying  lesson,  Mollie  and Matilda
        take us over," she says. Her job was to look after the electrics and fuel   had decided to go for a ride together in the Cotswolds, in the south
        of the ships that took supplies out to the warships. "Mostly it had to do   of England. A broken hip meant Mollie had to stop temporarily while
        with bringing troops to ship or taking them off again depending on what   she recovered and this is the first time she has ridden in about a year.
        they were doing."                                      Climbing carefully on to the horse she leans over and says to it: "Please
                                                               be respectful to your elders. Otherwise you're in trouble and so am I."
        But one night proved to be exceptional. Setting off in a small motorboat   She laughs.
        with  just  a  navigator  for  company,  she  travelled  into  the  English
        Channel in complete darkness. Her mission was to deliver a letter to   As they set off through a village, the Cotswold stone buildings gleaming
        Prime Minister Winston Churchill, who was aboard the HMS King   in the sunlight, Mollie explains it is the sense of freedom and getting
        George V (KG5), which was observing radio silence. "We went out   back to nature that she loves about riding. "As I'm going along I'm
        and out and out and because of the blackout you couldn't see the land   talking to him and he's listening," she says. "Look at a horse's ears and
        and you couldn't see anything else because there was no Moon," says   you will find they are going forward and backwards taking in what's
        Mollie, explaining it was the only time during the war that she really   going on."
        felt frightened.                                       "I think it's nice to see you doing things and being happy and sharing
        Eventually they found the battleship. A sailor waiting on a rope ladder   moments so  I can remember what we  did together," says  Matilda.
        took the letter from them as they passed the ship and they were then   Asked what she thinks about people telling her it is dangerous to ride
        expected  to  turn  around  and  return  to  shore.  "I  thought  'Dear  God,   at her age, Mollie says: "Go to hell! I'll do as I please." She laughs
        where the hell are we?' You couldn't see a thing."     again. But Mollie also says that one of the reasons she is able to stay so
                                                               active is being able to live in supported accommodation provided by a
        During her time in the forces, Mollie saw many disturbing things. She   veteran's charity, Stoll. "I didn't want to come to Stoll," she says. "We
        recalls she and her crew-mates having dinner on-board a destroyer with   were living in a very pretty place with a lovely river in front of us and
        some of the male sailors who served on it. "Little did we know it would   the ducks used to come, they would come right into the flat," But one
        set sail at about seven o'clock in the morning and by half past eleven   day Mollie had a fall and was on the ground for at least half an hour. She
        it would be back and a lot of them would be dead - all the top bit was   subsequently developed pneumonia and realized that she needed to be
        gone," says Mollie, "They had been machine-gunned and torpedoed."  somewhere she would be looked after.
        But she also regards her time as a Wren as a privilege and credits the   Mollie says she does not have any advice to give Matilda, explaining
        military with teaching her the importance of acceptance and making   that she believes that whatever she wants to be she will do it well. But
        the best of things. "If something terrible happened we tried to help   she does offer some general advice for younger people - never turn
        and make things better and if we couldn't then that was life. There was   down opportunities and experiences. "You would be surprised; all
        nothing we could do. "I mean literally there was nothing we could do,   sorts of wonderful things come out of it," she says. Matilda echoes her
        we had to accept an awful lot," she says.              grandmother's sentiments. "Mollie's actions help me remember that I
        Like many women who served, Mollie lost her job when the war ended.   can do anything I want to," says Matilda. Even if she has to lie about
        "We were chucked out, because sailors were coming back and our job   her age to do it, she adds, laughing. "When I am older, I hope I am like
        was the most interesting of all jobs and they wanted them back again,"   grandma and I still ride and fly planes. I need to get it into that, and I
        says Mollie. "It was an extraordinary feeling. We had been necessary,   hope I am as happy when I am her age, and I can still move around and
        we had been doing things, we were needed and suddenly no-one wanted   do things that I want to do."
        us," she says.

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